You should also consider the fact that your ex-boyfriend may have shared personal details about your relationship with his friends that could complicate your new relationship.
Your ex-boyfriend has likely had the same group of friends for years and it is important that the bond of their friendship will most likely not be compromised by the fact that you are dating one of his friends.
What if, you had taken this opportunity that’s in front of you; an opportunity to receive forgiveness for anything you feel you may have done wrong.
If your ex-boyfriend had a close group of friends, then you probably had the opportunity to meet them and foster your own relationships with them during the course of your relationship with your ex-boyfriend.For this reason you should be cognizant of the fact that if you are dating one of your ex-boyfriend's friends, you are very likely to see your ex-boyfriend often.For men, spending time with their male friends is one of their favorite pastimes and this is unlikely to change just because you are dating one of them and are an ex-girlfriend to another one.Even if you meet someone to whom you think you have no previous connection, a 10-minute conversation almost always reveals that she went to high school with your college roommate, used to be on a volleyball team with that girl from your book club, and had a six-month stand with your favorite barista.Queers don't tend to expect our dates to come into our lives completely free of prior complication.Women are more likely than men to foster relationships quickly and to have a difficult time ending these relationships.For many women the thought of ending her friendships with her ex-boyfriend's friends can seem as depressing as the thought of the romantic relationship with her ex-boyfriend coming to an end.In most cases, the intense affection and lost love may cloud your judgment and make you believe you’re ready to fall in love with an ex again. Read should you date an ex to find out if you’re truly ready.Once you’re certain that you’re ready to take a plunge into the same waters again, this is what you need to do. Losing a relationship has its gains Losing your ex to someone else or to circumstances can help both of you really understand how much both of you mean to each other. The break up may have been terrible, but every break up leaves a little crack that longs to be whole again.This is especially true in a relationship that ends abruptly.