Learning how to connect with emotionally unavailable men is like learning how to gain the trust of a beaten dog.One of my dogs, Pumpkin, is a little feisty Chihuahua I found one morning under a car by my house. I brought her into my home and she became my third canine companion.
These are indications of their lack of ability towards commitment to your relationship.Here are 12 problems all women who've checked their emotions at the door will understand.If the phrase 🚨 🚨 🚨 "I'm just trying to get to know you" 🚨 🚨 🚨 sounds off, like, 18 emergency alarms in your head, your emotions have checked the eff out. Occasionally doing something lightly morally corrupt just to make sure no one develops Feelings for you. But that won't stop you from last-minute bailing on Todd when you guys have set plans, just to be a tiny bit shitty and make sure he'll never really, really like you.3.Have you ever met someone who "romantically" knocked you off your feet -- as in "Hi Mom and Dad...you're not going to believe this, but I just met the man of my dreams! How did they miss the obvious warning signs before they became intimate and gave their heart away? " or "He wants the same thing I want: to settle down and have children.") For those of us who've been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person, we know the pain of not being able to get close to the person we love.If you're loving an emotionally unavailable man who remains at a distance, isn't emotionally open, and who has admitted distrust in women, it's best you extend an unspoken invitation for him to get to know you and come close, rather than trying to "pull" love out of him like fingers from a Chinese finger cuff.Just like a Chinese finger cuff, his love will resist your advances.Reasons behind such behavior could be that they are acting inconsiderate to distance themselves from you.Speaking Ill Of Past Partners If the person in question has nothing but bad things to say about their previous relationships, placing all the blame on its demise on the partner with whom they broke up with, it can show their unwillingness to be open and true about their feelings.The avoidance of saying “I love you” is also as a sign towards this, though some may believe in the sanctity of such words and wish to wait until the time is right.Inconsideration If someone is inconsiderate towards you and your emotional needs, then this may be an indication of their emotionally unavailability.