Dating just friends or more

I think people (usually men) get freaked out when they hear the word “dating” and automatically think “dating” means you are in a monogamous relationship. Yes…if you only go on one date it is not considered dating.

But if you’ve gone on multiple dates (three to be safe) with a person, then you two are dating. A date doesn’t begin with going over to a guy’s house to borrow a hammer after 9pm and end up banging it out for an hour.

A date consists of two people making plans to go out to a public place over dinner or drinks with the intent to get to know one another better (not just to get laid). Hook-up Text another Hook-up = Hooking-up You meet a guy at a bar, flirting happens, you share a kiss, you go back to his house and you hook up.

Now whether or not you have sex is your business…either way it’s still a hook up.

Hooking up usually constitutes going straight to the bedroom or living room (whichever you prefer) without dinner or drinks beforehand in a public place.

But I believe if plans have been made on a continual basis then it leans more toward the sides of dating, but each situation is unique.

Determining If You Should Date Making Your Move Cementing your Relationship Community Q&A When your feelings are more passionate and stronger than what you'd expect from a normal friendship, it might be time to take things to the next level.

Navigating this transition, however, is far from obvious.

At this stage you are 'more than friends' and there is an underlying understanding between you that something might happen though neither of you has likely said it.

While this is a great opportunity it is also a dangerous one.

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