It’ll help humanize the mystery guy so that they can stop imagining some scary dude stealing their li’l girl. Sexy selfies or pictures of the two of you hugged up can be saved for another time, like Neverary. It’s natural for them to feel bittersweet about you growing up. Visualize the future: You love him, your parents love him and he didn’t even mind when your little brother kicked him in the shins.