Back then, I wasn't sure what it meant to be a godly man and be intentional, so I never made a move.I figured I wasn't ready spiritually to lead her and reasoned I needed to be stronger in my walk with Christ before I even thought about dating her.Assessing the Situation Talking to Her Being Respectful Community Q&A It happens all of the time: you meet a girl who is perfect for you, only to find out that she already has a boyfriend.The situation may seem hopeless, but there are ways to approach the situation tactfully.
But if it happens Sex is sporadic Men are humans too. Your guy might go in and out of feeling okay about sleeping with you.As I discussed last week, Tinder has been an incredible enabling agent in women’s slutification.Every day that goes by the women of the West become more and more like men.I’ve dated some girls casually that whenever the girl has her phone out and she leaves it on the table, the counter, the couch, wherever it may be, it is always face down. Probably the screen of her phone showing a text notification from some other guy.The last thing she wants you to see is “Mike Irish Pub” or “Joe Tinder” popping up as a text notification.You’ll have more freedom to do what you want, when you want, and be able to see her when you want to, rather than when she calls. If you’re also seeing other people, it won’t matter if she can’t see you because you’ll have other things to occupy your time with.As neediness is one of the biggest relationships killers, this is a HUGE plus.There are too many to cover here, but here are the 4 top reasons why you MUST encourage the girls you’re dating to see other guys: Allowing her to see other guys gives you the space to see other girls.This means you go out, flirt and play, make out, muck around, and not even think twice about getting in trouble. If she’s seeing other guys, it means she’ll be far less needy and demanding.After high school ended, I decided to go out of state for school, and gradually, this girl and I began to talk even less.Whenever we talked, though, I was overjoyed with her faithfulness in God, and it spurred me on to pursue God even harder.