”As much as love is a drug, worship is an even easier one to get addicted to. As the Stone Roses so eloquently put it, “I wanna be adored!Talk about whatever’s happening in the store at the time. If you fear rejection, it will rear its ugly head, time and time again, and ruin your approach.The girl will know that you are nervous and it will turn her off, big time.
First, a story: When I started writing , back in early 2005, I was working with a different woman than my eventual partner, Linda Holmes.Women, on the other hand, are less obsessed with the genetic makeup of their children and are looking for stability in a man, not just strong genes.Having a hotter wife is also the reason husbands are more attentive and motivated to make their marriage work.Do you think they fear rejection from the other players on their team?The best baseball players only succeed three out of 10 times.As the divorce rate increases, boys continue to let us down, and sexual trysts with hot men only ever turn into one-night stands; maybe we no longer want to waste our time looking for the love our parents never found.A study reported in Daily News revealed that women who marry uglier men have happier marriages than ones who marry attractive men. Men are more concerned with the appearance of their mate, ensuring they will have good genes to pass on to their children. There are numerous psychological answers behind the quandary that perplexes insecure passersby and jealous men staring at these couples across the crosswalk. Unfortunately for the illiterate, the answer lies with the illustrious Jack Kerouac, who once wrote, “The world would never find peace until men fell at their women’s feet and asked for forgiveness.” You know what? After years of broken hearts and deceit by the hot men we so yearned after, women are really just looking for someone to show a little worship, a little praise. There's a multitude of reasons why that hot girl is holding the hand of that less hot man.And while women can beat their heads against a wall, wishing that this were not true, they’re fighting a real losing battle if they expect men to stop worshipping at the altar of beauty.Like much of my advice, it can rub a woman the wrong way.