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Lately, I’ve seen several threads on OKCupid’s forums asking why fat girls get little attention from guys.
“, hornz102485 writes: Why is it that men seem to be turned off when the term “full figured” is brought up? First, full-figured is a euphemism for fat and if men are turned off by the term, it’s because they know what it really means. Most of us are attracted to women and for many, that just doesn’t include fat women.
I am not lazy or a slob and yet when men see me they assume I am since I am overweight. We really don’t give a shit about why you’re fat or how hard you’ve tried not to be. What matters is whether or not your appearance gives us wood.
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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. Some women who lack a curvaceous physique may describe themselves as such because they happen to be larger. But then, larger sized women tend to be referred to as "fat" by people who think body fat is evil and unattractive. But actually part of how we physically distinguish male from female.
If any poll shows men preferring full-figured women, I guarantee most of the respondents were imagining actual full-figured women like Marylin Monroe or Laetitia Casta, not big tubs of goo. Then he has to lie to her about people (as if attraction works the same for men and women) having hang-ups. It’s just that I have a hang-up about repulsive bodies.” Whatever. Yes, there are chubby-chasers out there, but not nearly in sufficient numbers to satisfy the massive hordes of massive women in existence today. However, I don’t look at a big guy and get grossed out, nor do I look at a thin man like that.
In a thread titled “Why do most men not want to date a full figured woman?However, after talking to your male co-workers and observing that you’re not being contacted, you have to be asking yourself – is it REALLY in my best interests to tell the truth if 95% of guys are going to dismiss me for doing so?This is the online dating dilemma that faces MILLIONS of people each day.I'm betting "athletic" means thin, and small-to-no boobs.Sometimes it's hard to decode these designations, as the OP demonstrates.I work in a law firm as a Calendar Manager" "I am very personable person. I love my family, my friends and music but sometimes not in that order. I am easily amused and" "im not the best at describing myself...i guess i can be nice..i can be weary too and it takes alot for me to trust someone. Im very honest and laid back and i work alot so i stay kinda busy. "I am a 29 year old heavy set female living and working on Long Island.I have never been married nor do I have any children but I would like both someday. The good news, Nicci, is that all of the answers can be derived from the same exact technique – flipping things over to consider the other person’s point of view.Let’s start with you, because a) you wrote me the note, and b) you’re an online dating anomaly – an honest size 10 who doesn’t claim to be athletic and toned.