When you spot a cute guy across the room and think he might shy, Ahluwalia advises collegiettes to give their shy guy a “green light” by smiling or holding eye contact for a few seconds.
This makes it easier for that interested but shy guy to approach you.
He will be more comfortable talking to you with a known and interesting topic.
Be honest and share your experiences, interests with him. This always makes the shy guy very comfortable and he tends to open up for you.
As a full-blown extrovert myself, I find it difficult to date men who don’t have the same energy level or outgoing nature.
(For what it’s worth, I’m sure they find it equally challenging to date me!
Ask him out on a date when you think he is comfortable with you to an extent. A nice and quiet place with less people is a suggestion.
The initial gatherings must be small with people he is comfortable with.
Still, when I got the email from him asking if I’d like to have dinner, I was intrigued enough to go.
When it was just the two of us, his words were still limited, but flowed more smoothly.
He talked about his job (he worked for a Silicon Valley startup), loved independent films and had three sisters.
Are you dating him but are unsure about how you should behave with him?
Then look through this quick guide which will help you with tips on dating shy guys and how to make them feel comfortable while dating.